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welcome back post grad babes to the Thrivalisit Edits sister, The Corporate Girly Survival Kit. In this email blast we are diving into the small ways we survive or romanticize our work life i…

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for the first time in a short minute I feel like a screw up and a baddie at the same time.

Gentle Reader,

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We women would rather host a coup than a Kiki, but the party is ours, and we can cry wearing our crown if we want to.

We live in a world that justifies the distaste of women’s thoughts. the intuition that must be intellectualize the hell out of. That is the pressure to make a party out of a requiem.

Our love for ourselves can’t out run the footing these issues have in our lives. That dare not let women be successful.

-when the opportunity for something more has made it clear to exclude you. It is like we are trying to fit a cylinder in a square hole. (foreshadowing)

The growing pains of wondering-is this meant for me. Is that acting teacher not finding prospects in you? Does your family wonder when you will retreat to a job in marketing? we are taught soulfully with our chest, I say, that we are meant to be one thing-to the world. Which pretends to go easy on us.

am I enough-for whom, maybe I question if its enough for me? am I enough for me?

maybe the pressure we put on ourselves is the requiem. we wonder if anyone is looking for us, to be more then we have always been.

we press hard, because we as women strive to be more-for us. we put that pressure on ourselves. however I believe in my chest and within my expense of being a women that something manly is at foot.

this pressure to be the best, isn’t for our own selfish act-its for society for us to be dazzling pictures to imprint its rhetoric on.

and they make it our problem, because people in our life are comfortable with us doing less or being less.

its to get it out of the way, because in order to challenge this paradigm-of being pushed out of our destiny. no room. we have to heal our inner child that want us to be fire fighters and movie stars.

that lead with ambiance, we developed our self confidence early-psychologist agree it is taught to us.

our self-esteem and worth is taught to us by the adults in our lives.

you are not a burden, nor a waist of resources.

your path might started later, but the finishing line is within the same distance.

gentle reader, you care deeply. And it’s time to discern not whom your meant to be, because I deeply believe we already know that somewhere.

but how to avoid finding validation, because when its not there it stings, and we need more then delusions we need discipline-hope-trust that yes.

everything is coming together.

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I found it simple indulging as a young child, careers, but most importantly money and lots. Growing up in invisible poverty, I adapted to the generational curse of “building my identity on what I do …

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